From Strangers on a Train to Lifelong Friends -

When we travel, we not only open ourselves up to new cultures and ways of life, we also open ourselves up to new connections! This was the case for Local Coordinator Lee Lorenzen in Texas, who came to student exchange through a friend she made on a train in Italy. Little did she know then that the conversations on that train would lead to her not only becoming a host mom, but a part of a team whose mission is is to foster greater mutual understanding and to empower young people to grow through cultural exchange.

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“My journey from host mom to Local Coordinator (LC) is quite unique. It all began when I met a woman on a train ride from Bologna to Florence, Italy. She and I began talking, and we connected on so many levels that we decided to exchange phone numbers. One day she called me and asked if she could arrange a call with a friend of hers that had a daughter coming to Texas for her exchange year. I agreed, and the three of us shared a call to discuss her program. His daughter, Elisa, would be staying with a host family 2.5 hours from me.

I met Elisa and had a very nice time getting to know her. I actually drove 5 hours round trip to meet her. At that time, I could only imagine how scary it would be as a parent to let your child travel overseas for the year with no real control over their whereabouts and activity.

As it happened, Elisa ended up needing to move to a new host family. I then looked at my husband, and he said, “of course we can take her.” When we returned home, I immediately put in our application and was contacted by Jason Baldwin, my now Regional Director, to schedule a home visit. Jason and I had a great first visit and immediately hit it off. We were approved to take Elisa as our exchange daughter.

Since the local schools would not accept another exchange student, in late September early October, fellow Local Coordinator, Mike Carroll, came to our rescue. We were able to get Elisa into the nearby district. This meant that my husband and I would drive her 1-1 ½ hours round trip to and from school daily. We also managed to bring Elisa to school functions and friends’ parties when she got an invitation.

As time progressed, Jason, my LC at the time, would call and check in at least monthly. Everything was going so well, and we would have conversations about STS and what it means to be a Local Coordinator. I expressed some interest, and at the beginning of the new year I accepted a position as a Local Coordinator. I immediately took on responsibility for a handful of students that were in their second semester of the exchange year. I made it a priority to connect with each host parent and student to build a relationship with them. While coming in mid-year made it a bit more difficult to establish a relationship with my students and host families, all in all, it was a very successful year as an LC and a tremendously successful year as a host mom!

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We traveled quite a bit with Elisa. We took her to meet our family in Chicago and Nashville. She experienced Chicago snow, Black Friday shopping on Michigan Ave., and popcorn from the famous Garrett’s. In Nashville we toured some of the famous landmarks, spent time with our family, and celebrated an early Christmas dinner in downtown Nashville. Elisa became “family” to our children, grandchildren and friends. Christmas was magical with Elisa. In Italy, the holiday is not as grand as it is in the States. We had 26 people over to our Christmas Eve dinner and celebration, and family photos taken with Elisa. The spring flew by, and it was time to send our “exchange daughter” home to Italy. After a going away party, and some new cowboy boots, I put Elisa on a plane to her family. Of course, it was a very difficult time, with tears letting her go. We did find solace in knowing that I was scheduled to fly to Milan the next month and would spend time with Elisa and her family!

Being a Host Mom was a very valuable and insightful lesson for me. It helped me to better understand how much of an impact that we can have on these students as well as how they can shape our lives too. As parents, we are usually the ones imparting knowledge to our children, but with an exchange student, their impact on us can be just as powerful if you are open to learning about them and their culture. Elisa and I talk several times a month, and we are always looking forward to our next in-person visit.

As a nurse and teacher, I have always valued education. Education in any form can help shape your life. I love being an LC because I not only get to help young exchange students acclimate to our way of life, but I can also show them by way of exposing them to travel in the US, taking them to events that exemplify our culture and lifestyle, and encouraging friendships at school and at home to broaden their perspective. By hosting Elisa, my family became more inquisitive about her home and culture, therefore opening their minds to European travel too.

Exposing our students and families to fun activities is also a way to build stronger bonds. Last year we spent the day in Ft. Worth at the Stockyards, taught Elisa to make homemade cookies, celebrated National Popcorn Day, participated in her friends’ birthday celebrations and various parties, and Elisa attended prom. One of my favorite activities was going prom dress shopping with Elisa. Since I have 2 sons and 5 grandsons, this was the first time that I got to experience this too! Since Elisa was taking US History, we invited her to watch part of our Presidential Election that happened during her stay. It was a history lesson in real time, and it made for a great family discussion. We also went to see a Ranger’s Baseball game with some of the other exchange students and their host families.

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This fall, Jason made arrangements for some of our families and students to paint a house for Habitat for Humanity. What a great time was had by all. The students got to know one another and bonded over painting a house together. It was quite a rewarding experience all around. Some of our students had never had an opportunity to volunteer their time, so the event was very meaningful.

I have truly enjoyed my time as an LC and hope to continue to make a positive impact on many more young lives for years to come. This work has also awakened me to the possibility of sending my grandsons overseas for an exchange year in the future. What better legacy than to know that you have imparted knowledge and education on a young life through exposure to an exchange program for study.”

We could not be more grateful that Lee struck up a conversation with a stranger on a train to Florence, and now we get to watch her make students’ dreams come true every school year. By connecting them with families in her community, she is bringing people together with mutual respect, promoting personal growth and a positive global perspective which can break down cultural barriers, and increase respect and understanding of each other’s way of life. Join the adventure today and be part of something bigger!

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